“Since it is so likely that (children) will meet cruel enemies, let them at least have heard of brave knights and heroic courage. Otherwise you are making their destiny not brighter but darker. Lewis Books are life.
& is a curious thing.Power resides where men believe it resides. It& a trick. A shadow on the wall. And a very small man can cast a very large shadow.& ~ Varys talking to Tyrion // Quotes from Game of Thrones - The Spider
Feelings are just visitors; let them come and go…and "let them come" means acknowledge them, lean in their direction, look into their eyes with kindness, be fully present with them…and then as they leave, smile to greet the next visitors.