What lies before us and what lies behind us are small matters compared to what lies within us. And when you bring what is within out into the world, miracles happen. - Henry David Thoreau (my favorite quote!
Amazing people don't just happen. They have to work hard. If none of us worked hard or worked in general we wouldn't have freedom or iPhones or iPads. Work hard and you can become one of those AMAZING people.
Forgive others not because they deserve forgiveness, but because you deserve peace. maintaining resentment only hurts myself I can avoid the injurer, but I don't need to harbor resentment and hate and ill will; those things only damage my own psyche.