You may not able to control every situation and its outcome, but you can control your attitude and how you deal with it.similar to what I say a lot.if you can't change the situation, the only other thing then that you can change is your attitude.
I looked in the mirror and realized. wow, after all those hurts, scars, and trials, I really made it through. I did it. I survived that which was supposed to kill me. So a straightened my crown and walked away like a boss.