It's not about perfect, it's about effort and when you implement that effort into your life. Every single day that's where transformation happens. That's how change occurs, keep going. Remember why you started.
If it's not making you better, it isn't love. True love makes you more of who you are, not less. - Mandy Hale (If thats the case i think i must only be capable of 'loving' myself. I always lose who i am in the place of girlfriend or lover.