Who you are is so much more important than how you appear in a picture. Be a spiritual being vs a superficial being. This world has more than enough superficial beings. Be who God created you to be, not the image the world tells you to be.
A Real Man never hurts a woman. Be very careful when you make a woman cry because God counts her tears. The woman came out of a man's rib, NOT from his feet to be walked on and NOT from his head to be superior, but from his side to be equal.
You are always responsible for how you act. It is very true my friends, you and only you are responsible for you actions. A wise man once said - we cannot control what happens to us - but we can control what to do about it,.