Reality is not something that you integrate into your personal view of things. Reality is life without your distorting stories, ideas, and beliefs. It is perfect unity free of all reference points, with nowhere to stand and nothing to grab hold of.
In one Buddha-body He produces infinite Buddhas, Thunderous sound pervading all lands Expounding the teaching, the deep ocean of thusness. No abiding, yet no departing... No substance, no abode, And no origin that can be found; No signs, no form: What appears is like reflections. Avatamsaka Sutra - 164, 165 Note on the image: Sambhogakaya Samantabhadra and Consort.