The desire of lots of people is to have a flat stomach. Sadly, you cannot just exercise your method to it. A lot involves exactly what you put into your mouth. Do you have excess fat in your abdomen location and want to get rid of it when and for all?
I don't think it's necessarily what to say when marriage is hard, I think they're questions and statements that apply to every day life. Open & honest communication is the key to a great marriage, which I do have :)