I like being alone. I have control over my own shit. Therefore in order to win me over your presence has to feel better than my solitude. You're not competing with another person, you're competing with my comfort zones.
Yep...I have been there...have done that...several more times...because it took me awhile to learn the lessons I needed to learn to heal my life...now I offer my life story I've Been There...as a Testimony of Hope.