That'd be me. The World has dealt me the hand I hold, not God. And people make their own decisions weather good or bad but life goes on I guess. One can't make people be what God expects or has planned for them when we have the will to do as we please. People hurt us by mistake or by conscious decision, but the pain is the same when the damage is too great to fix, or they can't get past what they've done. Some things we'll never know what would have been.