In a culture that is so accepting of alcohol, how do you know if you've crossed a line into alcohol addiction? Once you go from heavy drinking to alcohol abuse you need to get help.
13 Subtle Signs Of Alcoholism That Are Easy To Miss, also: why I'm now sober!
People pleasing, poor boundaries, attracting problems and helping too much are common. Putting the focus back on you and letting go of what the alcoholic does is the start of 12 step recovery.