You will never get closure with a narc. NEVER. First, he doesn’t meet the 3 most important pre-requisites: A reasonable degree of sanity; a foothold in reality; empathy. He will never accept his part of the responsibility, as he portrays himself as the long suffering hero and you as the terrible ogre, after every nasty blow-up, attack and cold shoulder episode she initiated and will never admit to any of the atrocities he committed during the relationship now that it’s over.
Make 2016 the year you push all those worries aside. Take our challenge and try a new method to calm your nerves every day for 21 days. By the end, think about which activities and exercises most effectively helped you to harness your anxiety.