I think it is probably about their willies. The babble book has a lot to answer for; written by men, for men, to control and minimise women. It worked for thousands of years but that is history. The only thing that can hold women back now, is women. You can find them here on this site. All are "christians" of a form that insults the teachings of the man that is supposed to be the foundation of their faith. Sad.