write -- You know, I'm old in some ways - in others, well I'm just like a little girl. I like sunshine and pretty things and cheerfulness, and I dread responsibility. - F Scott Fitzgerald, This Side of Paradise
Forgiveness doesn't excuse their behavior. Forgiveness prevents their behavior from destroying your heart. Deciding not to forgive hurts not only the other person but you as well. Not learning to forgive hardens the heart and makes shallow the soul.
”Trying to change people is pointless and insulting. Don't get sucked into negative vortex. Be bubbly, be happy be loud be fun and enjoy this short life. Find people who love like you do. And find people who aren't trying to change you"