The capacity to be alone is the capacity to love. It may look paradoxical to you, but it is not. It is an existential truth: only those people who are capable of being alone are capable of love, of sharing, of going into the deepest core of the other person - without possessing the other, becoming dependant on the other or addicted to the other. They allow the other absolute freedom .. their happiness cannot be taken by the other because it is not given by the other. Osho, being in love.
Absolutely true! When you change your mindset you can begin to change what's happening around you. You can't always control what happens to you or what others do but you can control how you let it affect you! Keep moving forward and be positive.