The closer you get to Allah, the closer you get to your spouse! It's our nature that we worry about finding a good spouse, the secret is to make your relationship with Allah stronger and He will take care of the rest :)
Of course, there’s more to a happy marriage than just these simple tips. Every relationship is different. But I believe if you start off worrying more about pleasing Allah and making your marriage work, and less about “your rights”, you’ll be much happier with your husband or wife.