Toxic people will hurt you and then try to make you feel bad that you are mad or hurt or upset. It's known as blame shifting. Instead of taking accountability for their own actions, they blame you for "having feelings." Abusive people do this
This is so true! Stop wasting time on someone who is soooo NOT worth it! If they don't value, respect, and cherish you walk away. Love yourself enough to move forward. I promise you're worth it! ~ Deciding to forgive.
The time just before we fully recover is the trickiest time for us, because it's the time when we still feel the emotional pull, and it's the time when we need gentle but firm parenting from ourselves to bring us back to the reality of the situation.