You have to have been through it, in order to understand it. people have no right to say pull yourself together and grow. You needed to come for a ride in my life. Then you might understand what its like .to be treated and feel like trash
I'm only responsible for what I say, not for what you understand. Although as an author I am responsible for making readers understand--a reader who doesn't understand is an unhappy reader. (And there is some value to leaving some questions unanswered.