Prayer for all the girls. May God give them an inner peace and a desire for restoration with their dad. It's not a "if you can't be here everyday I'm going to punish you by not letting you in my life" deal. That will only hurt them more in the long run. Time to put the pride aside and speak to your dad and know he's always going to be your dad whether physically there daily or not. He wasn't there mentally and unhappy when he was. At least now he is happy and a better person!