Not really all "mine" but my experience is MINE.It happened to me. I cannot explain to where anyone ( except maybe another birthmother ) could possibly understand. It forever changed me as a human being. To know you have a child out in the world somewhere, that you know NOTHING about, tears away at your spirit. Not knowing consumes you at times...THINK ABOUT THAT.
WHICH is exactly what miserable people should be doing in an effort to discover who they are and find self-love. Miserable people can't know self-love, but they can be compelled to care and discover that love by probing deeply into their psyche. It only takes a spark to conceive the fire within them!