and sometimes she'll get sad and she'll share it with you. not for you to cheer her up. just be quiet and feel it with her. because sometimes she needs to feel it to let it go. but she doesn't want to feel so alone.
is it annoying because it's a wiser and more mature attitude? is being negative the only way to socialize and be "relatable" with others?<<< I guess so, but there are many people who will find you inspiring