Amen "controllers, abusers and manipulative people don't question themselves. they don't ask themselves if the problem is them. they always say the problem is SOMEONE else" - so true for this narcissist who puts people on back burners!
K but why can't it be so that if there's reasonable belief that someone is in danger you can enter their property to y'know help save their life<< That's what they do. The police use suicide is a crime so they can break down the door and save their life
One of my favourite "hobbies" is to order some food in a food court or park where there's lots of people, set myself up happily alone at a table and watch the people around. Creating the most creative stories I can about each and every one.
Why we stay in a narcissistic marriage. Many of these ring true but honestly, I just didn't see it for what it was. He kept his mask on for so long it was normal. The abrupt discard was my first noticable clue that something wasn't "normal" about this.