It took years to get over 20 years of narcissistic abuse, I have too much self respect to allow anyone in my life to treat me like that again. There is no accepting or ignoring. It is simply not allowed in my or my child's life.
Characteristics of Narcissistic Mothers by The Harpy's Child.also applies to siblings, partners. So sad! Many times if you know an abusive manipulator and cannot understand why they are that way - they are an extreme narcissist. Explains a lot!
A narcissist paints a picture of themselves as being the victim or innocent in all aspects. They will be offended by the truth. But what is done in the dark will come to light. Time has a way of showing people true colors.
Yes. Why act like your so spiritual when you've broken half of the Ten Commandments You can speak with spiritual eloquence, pray in public, and maintain a holy appearance. but it is your behavior that will reveal your true character.