My father taught me to be nice first because you can always be mean later. But once you've been mean to someone, they won't believe the nice anymore. So, be nice; be nice until it's time to stop being nice, then destroy them.
We must let go of the life we've planned, to have the life that is waiting for us. -Joseph Campbell ( this is soooo me! Must remember that God has my life mapped out better for me than I can imagine ---trust and faith, humility)