Be soft. Do not let the world make you hard. Do not let pain make you hate. Do not let the bitterness steal your sweetness. EPHESIANS 4:32 And be ye kind one to another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God for Christ's sake hath forgiven you.
This is cool. Things would be even better if our nation actually honored these men and women with HELP and SUPPORT when they get back home and in their transition afterward. Lip service is pretty popular in the old U. S. of A.]