Be careful what you say. You can say something hurtful in ten seconds, but ten years later, the wounds are still there. ~Joel Osteen also you should have been careful of immoral things you did towards your sister and BIL years and years ago.
I like people who I can occasionally have really deep conversations with, and at the same time joke around with them. One of my best friends I can do this with. She is very wise but also knows how to make me smile!