Practice what you post. Practice what you preach. What's the point of misguiding others who have hope and a chance at following God, when your example isn't helping them get there? That way of life is not pleasing to The Lord because it turns His children further away from Him and to the world. Yes, everyone has free will and should control their decisions, but the reality is..life in Christ is not an easy road to take, let alone maintain. So if you're a follower of Christ, be a leader.