It has to hurt so badly to watch your children fall by the wayside and you know that they are following your moral example. What then? My friends son died of an overdose, he had watched his father get high so many times. His dad will forever live with this reality. What do you do as the affairs pile up? I was raised that this was not ok, I did not do it so if my children cheat it will not be by my example. One thing I will not carry.