soooo true...he did me wrong by cheating & divorced me to be with the homewrecker, but his actions afterward were that of the victim...he lied and lied and lied to people she thought she could manipulate into believing he was abused...what a scumbag!!!
"When you complain, you make yourself into a victim. When you speak out, you are in your power. So change the situation by taking action or by speaking out if necessary or possible; leave the situation or accept it. All else is madness." Eckhart Tolle, The Power of Now.