is it annoying because it's a wiser and more mature attitude? is being negative the only way to socialize and be "relatable" with others?<<< I guess so, but there are many people who will find you inspiring
Pain changes people, it makes them trust less, overthink more, and shut people out. We can all thank Robin for the pain and hurt I have endured. We can thank my real family for helping me over come some of the trauma. It's a work in progress.
Once you have shown you can't be trusted, you will never be trusted by me again. Breaking someone`s trust is like crumpling up a perfect piece of paper. You can smooth it over but it`s never going to be the same again.