I don't get the whole mustache thing, but I digress. I don't believe for one second that it is a traitorous thing to the cause of women to prefer a gentleman. I LOVE that my man opens doors and holds out chairs and displays all manner of gentlemanly behavior toward me. I much prefer it to the opposite, which seems to have, sadly, become the accepted norm.
"...i fell in love with her courage, her sincerity, and her flaming self respect. And it's these things I'd believe in, even if the whole world indulge in wild suspicions that she wasn't all she should be. I love her and it is the beginning of everything..." F. Scott Fitzgerald