This is perfect. You need to know the other side before you make an assumption. I mean you can and say that you don't know the full story so you can't be for sure. that's what I do if I don't know the whole thing <--- This is so beautiful and amazing.
I am pinning this because I have such a similar story and it makes me happy seeing I'm not the only girl that was treated like a "girl" in a dojo and had to show a cocky boy how to really be a man. Accidentally broke his nose.