Four years ago I was just a guy who had a crush on a girl who had a boyfriend. And I had to do the hardest thing I ever had to do, which was just to wait. Dont get me wrong I flirted with her...For a really long time thats all I had. Little moments with a girl who saw me as a friend. And a lot of people told me I was crazy to wait this long for a date with a girl who I worked with, but I think, even then I knew, I was waiting for my wife.
Sad...many people feel this way about so-called Christians who are "holier than thou" and have taken it up themselves to be the judgement court of the world. Perception is reality, and many people don't perceive Christians as kind, loving or forgiving - just the opposite. They're finding more love and acceptance in the world. Wow.