it could say condem because juding isn't a bad thing. We always judge and that's a good thing - we judge the food we want to eat, the choices we make, the people we hang out with. The difficulty is being able to judge without condeming others judgement.
Some parents love to spend time with their children and some only want to spend time with one or neither. Sometimes parents forget to spend time with their children.One can only hope that every child is loved.
If you pretend to be someone your not to make people like you. And you have to be different for them to like you and they don't then they aren't a real friend. So just be yourself and i promise people will love the real you! So please be yourself.