love this ideas! and it also reminds me of my grandma who loved hour glasses.New twist: a "unity" hour glass instead of a unity candle. Haha and then use the timer to cool down before you say something in any/all future arguments//I LIKE THIS IDEA.
"At the bottom of the cake, hide whatever the groom likes. sports mascot, band logo, anything". or Spiderman. Always Spiderman. "Because it's just as much his day as it is yours" and Spiderman is awesome