"Each person has their own scale of what makes them happiest or saddest. Don't compare these. It's because everyone has based their scale on their own experiences and every person has had a unique life journey. Support the people around you through their worst days and celebrate with them during their best." - thank you! I agree with this completely.
On the Marquee: It's All Relative! My mother always told me she thought Ingrid was the most beautiful woman in the world, then when Isabella came along she could not get over her similarities to mom, and the love story w/ Rossellini. Of course she couldn't wait till I was old enough to talk, so she could share this story with me.
I remember a friend telling me this years ago. It was the first time this clicked with me. Now, every time a problem comes up, I remember this lesson; I remember that I have the right to feel my own emotions.