Quite possibly, this is the cruelest thing that you could do to someone. Particularly when you don't understand it or only know part of the truth (at best), anyway. Let people live; let people learn. (Those are not my words but well said.
Ok, then just hurry and rush on to the next thing/event in your life. No regrets later then huh? Life indeed is about gaining responses. Ever heard about reading between the lines? Yup learn to move on to the next part of your life .just sayin'!