Soulmates. "They feel just as alienated as you do, and you two will be together in the fact that you thought you were alone in this world. And that person loves the things about you that you think you deserve to be hated for."
Date a girl who reads. Date a girl who spends her money on books instead of clothes. She has problems with closet space because she has too many books. Date a girl who has a list of books she wants to read, who has had a library card since she was twelve.