You can be whatever you want to be, that's your right. Everybody has the right to live their own lives & be happy. But you can't make stuff up to fit your narrative. There's an X chromosome and a Y chromosome. Boy/Girl. And then the gender that one chooses to be. The end.
STOP this madness of needing to label or forcibly marginalize others with binary ignorance. Each and every one of us has the right to BE who we are and proudly identify OURSELVES as such. We are ALL precious... lesbian, gay, bisexual, transsexual, transgender, agender, queer, pansexual, intersex, asexual, straight, ally, questioning... and everyone else. EVERYONE.