Make a list of all the good things in life. Then make a list of all the bad ones. Try to think of two good things for every bad thing. if you cant, get more detailed and specific with the good things. take the bad things list and burn it.
It didn't matter what people thought about her. Her focus was never on small talk. She had better things to do with her life, like become a better woman. She didn't care what people said behind her back because most of them never had the guts to say it to