And gently and excitedly lead them to hard things, create much fusion in case they fail, but be prepared to celebrate them and be surprised when they succeed. And most of the time they will. It is vital that they learn that they CAN do hard things. ~K
"If you're physically fit, hungry to learn and be better, I urge you to travel - as far and widely as possible. Sleep on floors if you have to. Find out how other people leave and eat and cook. Learn from them - wherever you go." ...or any age, really.