"Worry about your character, not your reputation. Your character is who you are, and your reputation is who people think you are." - John Wooden quote- Wow, profound and perfect advice for me right now ;
Words to Live by as I have Learned long ago you CANNOT change another person; it is enough of a struggle to authentically change yourself yet alone trying to change someone else. Focus on being you - that is challenge enough.
All frustrations are self-induced. The outside world can invite us to become upset, but we ultimately accept the invitation. - Don't let others add to our frustrations. Choose to be proactive not reactive.