In your life, you will meet a lot leaders and not all of them are same. Analyze each of them and be the kind of leader you would follow. There are so many different types of leaders. Not all of them are good. Most misleading concept regarding to being a "leader" is do everything by yourself. Empower the others and watch them grow. (This reminds me a lot of my mother. This is definitely something she would say to me)
Ain't that the truth, yes I made changes to want you to come back but I also did it for me, I didn't want to be negative and hateful. I accept who I am weather it be fat or skinny, degree or not, I have accomplished a lot of goals I have set out to accomplish. To bad you are stuck on my past instead of the me now.