There are a few out there who just love and live for the drama. They just cant get out of their own way. Maddening. Much like a car crash, can't help but watch. Ahhh but the peace when you just turn it off... and walk away from all their misery. More
This happens to everyone once in their lives to help them understand that in this life their will be challenges we have to face but we can and we will overcome them stronger while at the same time better than before we even started off.