Live so when they are gone, you don't have regrets. They are gone, and it is too late to spend time with them. I so miss my Mom, who died in 2012. She loved me more than anyone else on this earth. She cannot be replaced. I have no regrets about spending time with her. I spent a lot of with her my whole life and especially that last year. I did not know it was going to be the last year. She died 1-6-12. I stayed all night with her on 1-1-12. Called her everyday.