~Meadow Sage~ This deer-resistant perennial is easy to care for and rewards the beginning gardener with long-blooming deep purple flowers. It’s a favorite of hummingbirds and bees, and will become a favorite of yours, as it comes back year after year.
Thalictrum 'Delavayi' 96 of 100 must have garden plants, 'chosen by people like Dan Pearson, Piet Oudolf, Fergus Garrett and others..." http://www.juniperhillfarmnh.com/2011/03/100-must-have-garden-plants.html
Salvia May Night - deadhead flowers & it will bloom all summer long. Drought tolerant once established. Full sun, well-drained soil. Cut & dry flowers for arrangements, pot pouries & cooking. Deer resistant; attracts butterflies, hummingbirds & bees. zone 3 - 9