Soooooo right NOW! "Friend" your suck at being a friend. Unappreciated. Esp when you tried to be there for them during a difficult time in their life, and they still talk crap about you. They don't stand up for you when their "friends" talk about you.
Before you say something mean think a little because you have no idea how much your words can actually hurt someone. Words really do hurt ! You know that old saying 'sticks and stones may break my bones but words will never hurt me'? Have you ever thought how it would feel to be called all those names? To be put down all the time?
Wheatley (2006) discusses the idea that disorder can become a source of new order. (p. 21) I think about this a lot in my life, especially when I am in transition from one chapter of my life to the next. I truly believe everything happens for a reason and that through this disorder, than a new order will appear. This idea has reappeared in my life multiple times through my life. I choose to live by thee words because they are very real to me and my practice as a student affairs professional.