If you’re feeling pain, don’t take action that creates even more pain. Don’t try to cover darkness with darkness. Find the light. Act out of love. Do something that will enable you to move forward toward a more fulfilling reality. There is always something good you can do. There is always love to give. Fill your heart with it and act in everyone’s best interest, especially your own.
You have to BE ACTIVE. Ask people questions, seek help and then do it... Don't just expect everything to fall into place without you putting forth any effort. God expects us to walk, to seek, to go, to act, to do, to bear fruit....but before we can do any of that. .. we have to BELIEVE in our hearts and have faith even when we don't see much proof.