Ladies be smart, don't fall too easily, and never settle. Make sure before you decide to marry someone, you really know them. Not just their favorite things but truly truly know them. People are really good at what they do, "fooling people".
I never thought about being a stand in when I was a little girl... to who he texts/talks to, what he watches, or who he stares at in public. Thankfully, when one grows a thicker skin, she awakens the part of herself and says, I don't have to play this part anymore.