That's where you messed up. You gave them the opportunity to picture a life without you, by being inconsistent. So when they got the strength, they walked away without looking back. No not walked away, they learned to move on.
This is quite true. In I there's a point in time where we have to chose ace potable I. Society or yourself. That there's a point and time where your mind pulls two different direction. Where you try to decide to let yourself go, or keep it all inside.