Very true in my experience. Some of the meanest people I've ever known identify as "Christians." The nicest people ive ever met are covered in tattoos and piercings, while the most judgmental people ive met go to church every Sunday.
I wish we were all born with tattoos identical to our soulmates so we could find each other rather than waste our time on people who don't care about us. this sounds like an awesome idea for a book. Haha call me crazy but I would read it.